04.05.2006
I’m Not a Hater


I really want to hate Kristin Cavallari but I just can’t…I mean, she was the girl on Laguna Beach that seemed just to be perfection- gorgeous,great body, popular, rich, and the girl KNOWS how to make guys fall in looove with her.
But you know what? You have to give the girl credit…she also got to A-List status practically overnight (based on the stalkerazzi scale)
So either she is one smart bitch or she has the best publicist money can buy.

04.05.2006
Please Don’t Mug Me

So I was reading Gawker.com and they had a link to a blog entry called Yeah, It Must Be Hard to Meet People When You’re Breathing Their Sweat, written by a guy from Florida…he makes some good points:

  • Hard to meet people? No, in South Dakota it’s hard to meet people. In New York, you essentially live in a chicken coop for humans. How the f*** are you NOT meeting people? There are so many goddamn people in that city you commute in layers, for chirssake.
  • You’ve got a bridge and a tunnel. Even an act as simple as going to your place of employment finds you physically pressed up against dozens and dozens of other people. I’m not saying they are all people you’d want to meet, necessarily, but they are human.
  • But New York? When you literally have someone living under you, on both sides of you, and on top of you, you’d be hard pressed to avoid meeting them.
  • I thought the Big Apple was a center of great personalities, artists, thinkers, and intellectuals. Have you become so bitter that you are convinced all of them suck?
  • But what about all those great cultural events that New Yorkers love to tell you your city doesn’t have? Can’t you meet people there? Or the “museums” or the “art houses” or the “quaint little coffee shops?” All these things, apparently, only exist in New York, and yet you all still can’t meet people? Perhaps the problem is not New York. Perhaps the problem is you.
  • Perhaps you New Yorkers could try this crazy thing called “eye contact’ and try “meeting’ each other in person once in a while.

Well, Mr. Florida, you have raised my awareness that, yes, maybe I should start doing those “cultured” things that “only” New York has…and yes, maybe a little eye contact would do a girl good (unless it’s with a bum or someone who is obviously going to mug you.) HOWEVER, I have one question for you:

Would YOU want to date the naked cowboy???

04.04.2006
The Crush List- A, B and C

So I’ve decided to rank my crushes- on the Hollywood meter:

C-LIST
Landon Lueck
I don’t know if it’s the lack of men at my job or what but lately I’ve been lusting after my favorite C-list celeb…Landon Lueck, that’s right- from The Real World Philadelphia.

B-LIST
Paul Walker
Do I really need to explain? He’s just the perfect, stereo-typical all-American surfer type guy. AND- I actually know someone that made out with him(!)

A-LIST
Ben Affleck
Ever since the movie Armageddon, I just thought he was the hottest thing EVER- even if he IS married and now has a daughter who he named Violet…you can bet Jennifer was behind that one.

04.04.2006
L.Lo- You’re So CHANEL


Now I’ll be the first to admit I love to watch the ever-so-scandalous, Lindsay Lohan. I think sometimes people forget the poor girl is only 19 years old and she makes the same mistakes that I made at 19 (ok, well maybe not me…but other 19 year olds, def) but when I came across a photo of her in the May Cosmo, I saw how truly beautiful she really is- just in jeans and flats and wearing glasses. She looks so CHANEL.

04.04.2006
The Doe-Eyed Freshman


In the May issue of Glamour, there’s a little article about the “to-do lists of your dreams” providing a website that lets people list theirs and cross things off. (www.43things.com)
It got me to thinking about a list I made in high school with things like “go sky-diving” and “visit the Bermuda Triangle.” Wow…that was back in the day when I thought I would lead this fabulous, chic life…having time (and money) for vacations with my amazing boyfriend and great group of friends. What happened?! I miss my idealism and dare I say it, being the “doe-eyed freshman next door.”
When did I give up?! Since graduating college, I feel that my life is just one day— on repeat. I WANT things to change and be exciting but I still feel like I’m just waiting for this super long vacation to end…before going back to school. When do you realize that you’re an adult? I guess it’s different for different people- for some it might be when they get married, become a parent, get their first real job…
Maybe it has something to do with living in New York City. I read a really fantastic article called “How to Be Truly Happy for Other People” and it had a really interesting view on New York, it says:

“…in New York City, competition can be fierce and expectations of oneself,
however unrealistic, can still be disappointing when not met.”


One thing is for sure- I’m going to make some changes. The doe-eyed freshman is B-A-C-K.